Many years ago when I was being my usual self, my sister Jean made a comment that prompted this site. "Kathryn," she said, "you know how some people have medic alert bracelets that say diabetic, epileptic or some other condition?"

"Well," she continued, "I am going to buy you one inscribed 'She's Always Been Like This.'
That way, when you are wandering around aimlessly, people will understand why."

While she was kidding me about my typical distracted behavior, the comment stuck in my mind. "It is true," I thought, "I HAVE always been like this."

There is within all of us a core, eternal being. Whether we call this our soul, our ego, our personality or just call it "me", this being has always been and will always be.

And I have come to believe that our true and only purpose is to become who we have always been.

Somewhere along the path of life, many, if not most of us, have misplaced the core of our true selves. But it lies within us. And there comes a time in life when it longs to be released.

This longing often comes to a head around mid-life, although earlier for some of us and later for others. We discover that it is just too painful to be who we are not. But, most of us are virtually uncertain as to who we are. Thus follows what has come to be known as the "mid-life crisis". What do we do when we know who we are NOT but we do not know who we are?

How do we solve this seeming paradox? That is the purpose of the site. Through seminars, groups meetings, reading, laughter and fun, we will sort through what we are not to discover the core of who we have always been and always will be.

This journey can last an hour, a life time or many life times. But don't worry. You have all the time in the cosmos.

Welcome to my world.
Enjoy!
Kathryn